
OH MY GOSH! I am so addicted to this drama it is not even funny. The Bromance, the mystery, the political intrigue. There is so much chemistry it is flying off the screen and making my heart pitter patter like crazy. And, as we all know, I am incapable of keeping my latest obsessions to myself so I dragged my kbestie Kdrama Jen into the obsession with me…as well as this post. So join us as we discuss why you should call in sick to work and binge watch this brilliant Chinese drama.
#5 Strong Female Characters

Kmuse: One of the issues I have with a lot of Korean Sugeuks is the inconsistent writing when it comes to female characters. Most often they start off with a strong narrative and then get relegated to the back seat for the political issues revolving around men. That, or they are firmly placed in the damsel in distress box and only get to look pretty or cry. It drives me batty. So when it comes to female nobles I look to Chinese dramas for that fix. The Chinese culture, historically, provided women with a lot more opportunities to be involved in politics which allows them to really let their metaphorical claws out in the political arena.
So not only do we have stronger written characters in general but Secret of the Three Kingdoms ups the ante and allows the women to be equal in moving the political intrigue. I am loving the Empress and her loyalty to duty to the Han dynasty. From the start, she makes the hard decisions to force her late husband’s wishes through. Regardless of anyone else’s feelings or interests. Not to mention her chemistry with everyone is off the charts. Watching her emotional walls crumble is fascinating.

Kdrama Jen: I love that the women are not just beautiful, but they are strong and smart. The Empress is a savvy political strategist with a deep sense of loyalty. She has learned to harden her heart in order to take on her many responsibilities. There are also many other strong women featured in this drama. They have layers and depth that are truly instrumental in moving the plot to the next level.
#4 The Bad Guys Are Brilliant Politicians

Kmuse: There is something so tedious about having a bad guy who is nothing more than a rich dude who thinks he should be in charge. Where are the layers? Where is the intelligence? Why would I actually even care if they are in the drama? While we do have a lot of rich bad guys who are politicking, I love that they actually have the tactical minds to justify their rise to power.
Kdrama Jen: I love smart bad guys. I love it even more when I can see they are not truly evil, just working against “our” side. The intrigue and reverse-reverse psychology is a bit mind-boggling, but is keeping me intellectually engaged. I can’t watch this drama when I am too tired or I miss a subtle action that signals something huge. This is not typical political scheming with a bunch of old guys sitting around the table plotting and planning. It feels like so much of that is taking place in the characters’ heads, so we are left with scenes that show brilliant politicians making decisions and using deduction to figure out their next moves.
#3 Can We See Some Hidden Sexual Tension Here?

Kdrama Jen: I am not sure it is hidden. I was fanning myself a bit every time the Empress slowly put out a candle. There is so much anticipation! I love that our new Emperor is clearly inexperienced with women, so he is just putty in the hands of the Empress.
Kmuse: Ha. Yup, his sexual attraction towards the Empress is pretty obvious. While I love that they have so much chemistry, I am thankful that he just doesn’t jump into a relationship with her right away. He is aware that she is using his sexual interest for her own gain and he isn’t going to fall into her arms. No matter how much he wants to get rid of his virginity.
#2 The Script
Kmuse: Not since Nirvana in Fire have I been so invested in a storyline. The mix of intriguing politics, romance, and bromance have me hooked. Add in the fact that it is all smartly compiled and written and I am officially in drama love.
Kdrama Jen: Just when I think they wrote themselves into a corner, one of the earlier story threads suddenly gets pulled and we discover one side or the other was even smarter than we thought. I also love the bromance, but that might be my Elvis Han love spilling forth.
#1 Bromance is the new OTP
Kdrama Jen: The knowing looks and playful smirks could easily be between two lovers, but instead they are between our male leads, and so the bromance is taking center stage for me. Elvis Han is perfect in this role. I think I need to write a whole post dedicated to all the reasons he deserves the full fangirl treatment.

Kmuse: I have been saying since around episode 3 that these two are by far more romantic than any other character. They bring the phrase co-dependent to a whole new level. Sure it is nice to see some Empress/Ping smooching but I would give that up for these two being angsty and bromantic any day.
There you have it. The five reasons we think you should join us in watching Secret of the Three Kingdoms ASAP. Let us know your favorite part of the drama in the comments and check out our Chinese First Impressions & Reviews for more great Cdrama recommendations.
Til next time,
Kmuse & Kdrama Jen
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Thanks for suggesting this. I feel like Elvis Han should stand as a reason on its own. I wanted to watch the drama for him in addition to the premise being my kind of genre but found the first episodes too slow. Your excitement is so contagious though I feel compelled to try again.
oddly enough, i tried again and dropped it again. Oh well.
I hear you. I felt the same way, even though I had liked the main cast it felt like it wasn’t going anywhere. The pacing was too off for a good 1/5 of the series, and the stakes were already sky-high so it felt like it couldn’t escalate any further. But, it changes as the Emperor and other characters grow into their relationships.
For me, I got hooked at around episode 10 or so, with the introduction of Guo Jia, and from then on I couldn’t stopped and finished it in a weekend.
I highly highly recommend trying to finish it, the ending is worth it imho.
I am loving it every second…intrigue..action…romance….bromance….excellent actors and actresses…slowly watching it to understand every word …
I only tried watching this drama because of Ma Tian Yu and the first episodes was kind of boring for me but it keeps getting interesting every episode. And I appreciate how mature the characters are like they still help each other even though they’re enemies. I love it. I’ve been looking for a drama that’s so interesting I don’t have to skip episodes or scenes and I found it. :)
I FELT ALMOST EVERYTHING YOU SAIDDDDDD!!!! It was the chemistry between the Emperor and Empress for meeee and the bromance! And yes it hasn’t been as good as Nirvana in Fire (The script) both versions! I really appreciate your reviews because I feel like we have similar viewpoints. Definitely top 5 favs for SURE! THE FEMALE LEADS STILL STICK WITH ME 😂😭
I’m 8 episodes into this drama and I like what I see so far. I’m glad you’re enjoying it too. I hope this drama won’t fail us! I love how knowledgable you are with voice actors/ actresses. I love Ye Hua’s voice actor but didn’t know he’s Sima Yi here. On a shallow note, everyone looks so pretty. Ma Tian Yu doesn’t look 31 and Han Dong Jun doesn’t look 25. Hopefully all these serious roles won’t give HDJ premature wrinkles lol. I wish he would take on more lighthearted roles.
I got the recommendation from this page, and went ahead and finished it, and I just want to say thank you, it might be my favourite C-drama so far (though admittedly, I’m still new to the genre).
For me the best part was the way they handled ‘power’ from a philosophical standpoint, and how it related to freedom, agency, and morality. I really liked even the antagonists were justified in their own way (even in a selfless way, from a certain point of view) and that’s why the tension of the Emperor’s morals versus the common-sense pragmatism of other characters was so intriguing to watch. It seemed like they were a bunch of decent people thrown in turbulent times, terrible situations that’s no fault of their own, and trying to navigate how to protect their own people while also doing the least harm possible (except you, Cao Pi, yes I’m looking at you) I don’t want to accidentally spoil but I also really liked the ending, it was a nice way of bringing all those messages together.
The last 2 or so episodes felt extremely cathartic. I loved the optimistic outlook, and the way they raised the stakes without getting melodrama-y, even as I knew the outcomes had to stick to historical facts and weren’t kind to the characters :’)